During the course of life, there comes a moment when ground rules are changed forever. Ethos and principles are altered to an extent that, returning to the previous dimension looks impossible. While in most of us the change is unintentional, as popularly called "moving on"; to some of us the change is intentioanl. to the latter class the process starts in a painful manner. as we proceed we realise the happiness this change is giving, making us wonder, "why the hell we didnt think of this before"......